*Disclaimer – this is a general posting, not to be construed as directed at any one person, but to all persons, though it is inspired by various recurrent situations that I have not addressed. As a standing rule, if I have a beef with an individual, I will name said individual. There will be no error, and there is no beef.*
Good day people. I need to make myself clear about something, here and now, so as not to ruffle any feathers in the future, and because I have not taken the time to do so in the past.
I am in a relationship with a woman that I am very deeply in-love with. Her name is Michelle, but you all know her as Blu. She is the moderator of the blog Life and Love. She is a green-eyed, French-speaking beauty who nobody (beyond maybe one or two of you) has any idea of what she looks like and for the simple reason that she does not post pictures of herself anywhere. Were she to do so, the men lining up to get her attention before they even attempted to get to know her for the person that she is would stretch the length of the CONUS. While that may be a slight exaggeration on my part, I need to illustrate this point for a few reasons: her not putting her pictures up is her choice for her reasons, not at my request and not to protect my ego (as my ego is too god-like to need protection). She chooses not to show herself, and I respect her choice not to do so, so you will never see her and me in any pictures online; you will never see her in any videos wherein you see me. The final reason is this: people do not need to be concerned with her appearance, but with her character, with her person. She is hosting a blog, and it’s not to be judged by her appearance, but by what she enjoys learning about and what she enjoys posting. She’s doing a lot to help me and Pap out with We Drink Because We’re Poets, as well, and the last thing that I would want to hear anyone say is that I’m somehow using her looks to garner attention. I don’t know which would piss me off more: the accusation of using her looks for my own ends, or her being reduced to just her looks. Either way, I’d probably lose my shit on someone’s face like a rabid monkey in a cage. Continue reading →